So, I gotta tell you this story...of how GOD has a way of blessing you when you least expect it. Or the way that he brings ppl into your path when you aren't looking. Rewind to I'd say about four months ago. I was on one of my inspector gadget kicks and going through Bryant's phone on a nightly basis because my spidey sense was tingling beyond belief. I quickly realized my spidey sense was tingling for a just reason. Multiple women's numbers lined his call history. There was one though that repeated itself over and over on his call history. Erked I did what I normally do...I picked up the phone and dialed the number. When she answered and I introduced myself she started to chuckle and said to someone in the background, "Yo, that nigga that was here last night, this is his wife."
I was surprised at her response and just sat there in silence for a second. She didn't bitch and question me at all either which was definitely a change. Instead, we just sat there on the phone and talked for I'd say close to 45 mins. When we were getting ready to hang up she told me that we should chill sometime. I figured she was just being nice and never expected to hear from her again. Surprisingly though over the next few months, we spoke from time to time back never met face to face. She was a homebody like me but she was so much different. This girl was at that moment going through the same shit that I was in her relationship but she didn't take no shit. Her slogan was "I'm that bitch" I envied her self esteem and self-worth. But I still in the back of my head felt uneasy because I never trust a bitch. They are ruthless and will steal your man in a second. But there was something different about her. I had this feeling like she was going to be my shoulder to cry on and I would be hers. And I was right. There was this one day when one of Bryant's female friends were at the house and my homegirl spotted a hoe right away. For the first time ever in my life, I had someone stand up and have my back. 100%. And it was a female. From that day forward she was my bestie and I am hers. That meant more to me than I think she realized. I'm forever grateful that GOD put her in my path even though it was a crappy way. I don't think I've ever had a friend like her. And I don't feel so alone anymore. I can finally say I feel like I belong somewhere....so I say to you my homegirl, thank you.
I was surprised at her response and just sat there in silence for a second. She didn't bitch and question me at all either which was definitely a change. Instead, we just sat there on the phone and talked for I'd say close to 45 mins. When we were getting ready to hang up she told me that we should chill sometime. I figured she was just being nice and never expected to hear from her again. Surprisingly though over the next few months, we spoke from time to time back never met face to face. She was a homebody like me but she was so much different. This girl was at that moment going through the same shit that I was in her relationship but she didn't take no shit. Her slogan was "I'm that bitch" I envied her self esteem and self-worth. But I still in the back of my head felt uneasy because I never trust a bitch. They are ruthless and will steal your man in a second. But there was something different about her. I had this feeling like she was going to be my shoulder to cry on and I would be hers. And I was right. There was this one day when one of Bryant's female friends were at the house and my homegirl spotted a hoe right away. For the first time ever in my life, I had someone stand up and have my back. 100%. And it was a female. From that day forward she was my bestie and I am hers. That meant more to me than I think she realized. I'm forever grateful that GOD put her in my path even though it was a crappy way. I don't think I've ever had a friend like her. And I don't feel so alone anymore. I can finally say I feel like I belong somewhere....so I say to you my homegirl, thank you.