As I listened to him I had to chuckle to myself. Chuckled because yet again I hear the same words as before. And before I would let him ramble and when he deflected the blame and told me it was because I did something to cause him to act this way I would accept it and move on. Lately, though I fought right back and called him on his bullshit. And he hated it. After all, a narcissist always has to come out on top. And he hated it when I proved him wrong. I don't care what anyone does or says, you don't cheat. If you arent happy you end the relationship. Something he's never been able to do. I mean think about it. If he did he would pay all the bills and support him? Anyway, after his sob story was over I just sat there waiting to see if he would come clean about any wrongdoings he had done. Nothing. Not one damn thing. I figured that it would all come out in the wash anyway. And I was gonna make sure he was around to hear it. My god how the lord works in mysterious ways...the next day I received a phone call.
From none other than the girl herself. He had been texting her for some clothes he left in the car and at that time she wanted nothing to do with him. I put in on speakerphone with him right beside me so he could hear everything. She bad-mouthed him as I expected and then I cut her off. Now It was my turn. Already knowing the answer I asked her very calmly, " And you guys did sleep together, correct?" Her answer was yes. he looked at me dumbfounded. Then I proceeded to ask her how many times. She said that they slept together the first night. That he wanted to on the second night as well but couldn't perform correctly. I knew right then that she was being 100% honest with me. Just by that one statement. I thanked her and hung up the phone. When I looked up at him he looked like a young boy so terrified that he had pissed his pants. I calmly and without so much as raising my voice in the slightest said to him, "Are you going to tell me the truth now. Are you finally going to admit it? Did you sleep with her?" Finally, I got the answer that I had known but was waiting for him to admit. He put his head down to the floor and very softly replied "yes." And with that, I looked at him and thanked him for finally coming clean and then I said. "we are over." His jaw dropped. For the first time, he had no comebacks. He knew that he fucked up again. He just didn't know what the effects would be. But those didn't come right away. I had thought this out carefully and knew exactly how to approach this. He wouldn't know how to react to my response and he would end up hanging himself again and sealing the deal. I knew that it would be very soon. I just didn't realize he would hang himself in under a week. Even I was a little surprised with that. They say to keep your friends close and your enemies closer and to kill them with kindness, and that's exactly what I did...
From none other than the girl herself. He had been texting her for some clothes he left in the car and at that time she wanted nothing to do with him. I put in on speakerphone with him right beside me so he could hear everything. She bad-mouthed him as I expected and then I cut her off. Now It was my turn. Already knowing the answer I asked her very calmly, " And you guys did sleep together, correct?" Her answer was yes. he looked at me dumbfounded. Then I proceeded to ask her how many times. She said that they slept together the first night. That he wanted to on the second night as well but couldn't perform correctly. I knew right then that she was being 100% honest with me. Just by that one statement. I thanked her and hung up the phone. When I looked up at him he looked like a young boy so terrified that he had pissed his pants. I calmly and without so much as raising my voice in the slightest said to him, "Are you going to tell me the truth now. Are you finally going to admit it? Did you sleep with her?" Finally, I got the answer that I had known but was waiting for him to admit. He put his head down to the floor and very softly replied "yes." And with that, I looked at him and thanked him for finally coming clean and then I said. "we are over." His jaw dropped. For the first time, he had no comebacks. He knew that he fucked up again. He just didn't know what the effects would be. But those didn't come right away. I had thought this out carefully and knew exactly how to approach this. He wouldn't know how to react to my response and he would end up hanging himself again and sealing the deal. I knew that it would be very soon. I just didn't realize he would hang himself in under a week. Even I was a little surprised with that. They say to keep your friends close and your enemies closer and to kill them with kindness, and that's exactly what I did...