In order to catch a sneak sometimes, you have to become one yourself. Which is exactly what I've done for the last two years. I knew there was something going on I just couldn't quite put my finger on it yet. The only way for me to figure it out was to play inspector gadget once more and go snooping. When it came to me, I allowed him no privacy. Everything he had to communicate with the outside world I paid for and/or it was in my name. All for a reason folks. This girl is no dummy when it comes to that. But yet a dummy if you look at the big picture. How do you wrap your head around that one?
First thing I do every time my spidey sense starts tingling is I look at his call history. I pay $1 extra a month for this feature but trust me it's well worth it. When I looked at the first couple pages I saw nothing out of the ordinary. But when I got to the most current calls and started scrolling I stopped dead in my tracks. I couldn't believe it. The night before he had placed over ten calls to a number that has haunted me since January....hers. The first girl I knew for a fact he had slept with. The one who threatened my life and ruined it as well. I couldn't believe it. And to make matters worse they were all placed at the time he was waiting to meet his friend's "mother" There was no mother at all. He was waiting for her. I honestly didn't know whether to vomit or find the closest weapon and a ride to where he was. I was hurt and even more, I was pissed. I decided that going up there would only cause a scene so I decided I was gonna call him. But not right away. I had to really think about how to approach the situation. Well, that idea lasted about two minutes and my fingers were dialing. I really only said a few words if I remember correctly. And all his answers were exactly the same, no. I asked him if there was anything he wanted to tell me, response no, I asked him if he had talked to anyone he shouldn't of lately, no again. Then I threw him for a loop and said, "So you never called ____ last night like a hundred times? No again. In my final words, I told him he was full of shit and that we were done and to not come back and hung up. I felt satisfied when I hung up but still hurt at the overall situation. So much disrespect for so long. And all I did was give him everything on a silver platter with me on my knees.
When it was around that time that he usually called me for an uber I wasn't surprised when I didn't get the call. And when I found out why I wasn't surprised either. His valet was nonother then the one he had just cheated on me with I sat there and chuckled to myself thinking "my God how desperate he is." The night came and it passed and he never showed up as I suspected. I sent him a couple texts the next day and other than one response I didn't hear a thing back. And that was three days ago. They are definitely made for each other out stealing and getting over on people. And now he's made his bed and I'm closing that chapter. I still had to get a jab in...I don't know how else to be...
First thing I do every time my spidey sense starts tingling is I look at his call history. I pay $1 extra a month for this feature but trust me it's well worth it. When I looked at the first couple pages I saw nothing out of the ordinary. But when I got to the most current calls and started scrolling I stopped dead in my tracks. I couldn't believe it. The night before he had placed over ten calls to a number that has haunted me since January....hers. The first girl I knew for a fact he had slept with. The one who threatened my life and ruined it as well. I couldn't believe it. And to make matters worse they were all placed at the time he was waiting to meet his friend's "mother" There was no mother at all. He was waiting for her. I honestly didn't know whether to vomit or find the closest weapon and a ride to where he was. I was hurt and even more, I was pissed. I decided that going up there would only cause a scene so I decided I was gonna call him. But not right away. I had to really think about how to approach the situation. Well, that idea lasted about two minutes and my fingers were dialing. I really only said a few words if I remember correctly. And all his answers were exactly the same, no. I asked him if there was anything he wanted to tell me, response no, I asked him if he had talked to anyone he shouldn't of lately, no again. Then I threw him for a loop and said, "So you never called ____ last night like a hundred times? No again. In my final words, I told him he was full of shit and that we were done and to not come back and hung up. I felt satisfied when I hung up but still hurt at the overall situation. So much disrespect for so long. And all I did was give him everything on a silver platter with me on my knees.
When it was around that time that he usually called me for an uber I wasn't surprised when I didn't get the call. And when I found out why I wasn't surprised either. His valet was nonother then the one he had just cheated on me with I sat there and chuckled to myself thinking "my God how desperate he is." The night came and it passed and he never showed up as I suspected. I sent him a couple texts the next day and other than one response I didn't hear a thing back. And that was three days ago. They are definitely made for each other out stealing and getting over on people. And now he's made his bed and I'm closing that chapter. I still had to get a jab in...I don't know how else to be...